When you get married, the road to brownie point bliss is long and winding. One of the key things both of you should never forget is the day you got married. But it's easy to forget the theme your supposed to base your gift on, as the years roll by.
Here's a trusty list to keep you on the right side of thoughtful!
Gift themes are either UK Traditional or Americanised. We're going to list the UK traditional ones, and there's a couple we find quite contentious through the modern ethical lens - so we're going to suggest you find alternatives!
Culturally speaking, whilst the origins of this tradition aren't totally traceable, historians believe it was baked into Anglo culture from Germanic tribal gifts. This tradition, like everything has evolved over time and is a fascinating subject if you fancy learning more.
For now, you want the answers... so here goes. In a very particular order:
4th Fruit & Flowers
65th Blue Sapphire
(And if you make it to stone, you'll both likely have a letter from the Queen already!)